Why would I do that?!
The ones I removed were beautiful, some of the most creative T-shirt designs to be found among the thousands that Amazon sells.
I had already located them, added them to my store, and linked them up to my tags and categories. Having them in my “stock” definitely improved the look of my website. And that is why they had to go.
They were beautiful, skilled, accomplished graphics, well beyond the level of my skill. The designs were primarily graphics, some with very clever or funny images. The T-shirts I removed were pleasant, to be sure. But they did not have a uniform message. Certainly not my message.
I am trying to create Seize the Spark as a brand
The shirts taken down were never part of my brand since they were created by others. The T-shirts themselves had interesting visuals and slogans. But they did not convey the insights that I want to get out into the world.
My desigsn are admittedly rather plain because most of them are only slogans. The fonts might be interesting, but almost all are rendered in black printing.
But I don’t consider myself merely a brand, but a point of view. One that is tied to upbeat energy and creative insights. They are not simply MY Sayings, but sayings taken from what I’ve written to encourage others to seize the sparks of insight that flash brightly for someone from tme to time.
Delivering a message, a binkle
Part of me wishes my designs could be pretter. And one of these days, I hope to gussy the collection up a bit with professional assistance. But I also know that the words are strong enough not to need to be pretty to be meaningful.They have the truth and energy of Binkles – that gives them power.
See more about the Binkle here. BINKLES
And what they convey is too pressing to have to await me getting that degree of polish. A favorite saying of mine is, “Half-assed is better than no ass at all.” (And I doubt it will ever appear on one of my T-shirts.) The meaning is: get into the game, and work on the refinements as you go along. Not being fully ready is not an excuse for inaction.
What I’ve come to see is that my T-shirts and mugs (or any other form they’re printed on) are about identity. Claiming who you are. Standing tall because something within yourself is strong and animating your every move. You are willing to be in the Binkle Movement, letting binkles have a presence in your life. That is the animating core of this website. And as I said on this mug, strange things are afoot, and my priority is to be in synch with these emerging energies.
It took me a while to catch on
When I set up this website, I wanted it to be offering upbeat shirts, and I figured mine would blend in with the others. And I still had a lot to learn about making T-shirts and getting them out into the world. This website was to be only one prong of that. But it soon became apparent that I was trying to ride two horses – a T-shirt store plus having a home base for designs of my own. And that was not a singular goal.
I’m a little guy and am not a writer or celebrity who people are eager to quote. There’s a lot of competition out there. But once I saw my ambivalence, there was no choice but to change the emphasis of this site.
If it were only about me and my ideas, I would not be so gutsy as to take down everything that wasn’t designed or written by me. But I have a trust in Binkle Power. I have a trust in the power that upbeat energy to make remarkable things happen.
A new promise to you
Now that I’m clearer about what my designs and Seize the Spark Shirts are for, I also understand in a much more relevant way how important its mission is. So I will be blogging more faithfully about certain shirts and the meaning of their messages.
I hope you’ll come back, see how this new commitment takes root. But for now, I’m treating this smaller, tighter store as a sign of being a sign of my own evolution. Every T-shirt can be a soapbox, and thank you for visiting mine.
With Valentine’s Day coming…
LOVE is in the air. It started in grade school, when we exchanged cheesy valentines with classmates on February 14. Now that day cannot come and go without us wanting to feel tangible signs of affection from those we care about. The heart insists on being front and center – whether we’re saying I love you in words or in other personal ways.
Valentine’s Day is not just for endearments, but for the EXCHANGE OF ENDEARMENTS. I love you too… I love you back… I love you more. Of course, it’s ideal when it can be a two-way street. It’s even more wonderful if those feelings form a basis for relating all along.
This design captures a favorite saying of mine: Let the Cherishing Begin. This blog post describes how that phrase was a turning point in my life, the basis on which I live each day.. It has remarkable power, and sets the tone for finding, and sharing, the joy which can be found when we have the will to look for it.
True, cherishing speaks of love. But it need not be the romantic kind alone. Think of those closest to your heart: children, closest relatives, or dearest friends. They’re the ones we cherish the most. But we also cherish special memories and objects that are reminders of specialness. Hold them close.
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Other Cherishing Stuff
Mugs and jewelry speak up for love too. PLEASE NOTE – These items cannot be purchased through the Amazon shopping cart above. But checkout at this link: https://www.spreesy.com/SeizetheSpark
Zero Tolerance is Not Something to be Proud of
Each time I hear an official speak proudly of how they support Zero Tolerance Policies I cringe. Something in me knows that behind the self-important posturing they are dropping the ball. What can we do to stop the madness, the unintended consequences that are committed under that banner? They otta be ashamed…
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Zero Tolerance Equals Zero Sense
I have an intense aversion to a type of thinking that is quite popular these days—Zero Tolerance Policies. Proponents treat them as so objective, so fair and reasonable, so unbiased and evenhanded. They are none of those things! Such policies should be called “Zero Judgment Policies or “Cover Your Ass and Avoid the Hard Choices Policies.”
There is no proportionality in their enforcement, and any hair-trigger event could bring down the full force of retribution without warning. Rather than “one size fits all,” it gives us “one size fits nobody.” Not only is the punishment unlikely to fit the offense, it can easily deliver a penalty without there being an actual offense. Authorities wedded to such policies are not showing leadership, but an abuse of their authority, along with an abdication of judgment or responsibility.
How else could anyone account for the absurd consequences such policies deliver? They lead to “consequences” that almost never suit the circumstances. In what universe does it make sense to arrest a preschooler as a sexual predator because he kissed a classmate? In my opinion, anyone in a position of power who endorses, or hides behind, Zero Tolerance Policies deserves to be tarred and feathered.
Besides, these inflexible approaches do not work. They produce too many negative results and unintended consequences. The American Psychological Association reviewed the data about the impact of zero tolerance policies in education. Quoting from the final report of the task force:
Concern has been raised in the literature that zero tolerance policies may create, enhance, or accelerate negative mental health outcomes for youth by creating increases in student alienation, anxiety, rejection, and breaking of healthy adult bonds.… The overwhelming majority of findings from the available research on zero tolerance and exclusionary discipline tend to contradict the assumptions of that philosophy.
Some confusion about the value of unbending objectives arises because virtues themselves are absolutes. Ideals like Truth, Honesty, and Integrity are non-relative. They transcend the everyday world. However, for the world we live in, everything is relative. And it is our responsibility to do the best job we can to make our behavior and ideals correspond.
Human judgment is the tool that makes discernment and adjustment possible. It permits us to respond appropriately to each specific circumstance. Nothing good can come from official policies that insist our best judgment has no place.
end of excerpt from Naked Visionary, Off the Page Press, © 2012
Let’s Point the Finger
Stand up to those who hide behind this misguided policy. I’d like to think some clear-sighted individuals will be able to turn this official stance into “the emperor has no clothes” moments. Then others will be emboldened to say “Zero Tolerance Policies are not a good thing.”
But even for those not prepared to object too loudly, let’s at least stop applauding. Let’s insist on finding solutions (or even punishments) that really do fit the circumstances. Let’s hold out for insightful and workable solutions, rather than “tolerate” such pig-headed ones.
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 American Psychological Association Zero Tolerance Task Force, “Are Zero Tolerance Policies Effective in the Schools?” American Psychologist, December, 2008.
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Down with Sacred Cows
This T-shirt comes from my book, How to Survive a Spiritual Hangover © 2007, Off the Page Press.
Each of us needs to become aware of the number of Sacred Cows that wander around without inhibition in our comfort zones. They are a primary reason why growth and change are so difficult to achieve.
First you have to recognize their presence, then take note of how you defer to them (worship them). Only then will you be prepared to restrain them. The shock of seeing the extent to which they hold you back should be the motivation you need to get free of them at last.
Warning: They keep wandering back if you are not vigilant. And don’t go replacing your familiar Sacred Cows with newer ones.
Sacred Cows Graze in Your Comfort Zone
In India sacred cows wander unimpeded through the streets. They serve as a reminder to respect the holiness of all living creatures. In Western culture, we too have our sacred cows. But they are not acknowledged or public. Ours are more private and personal. But they still roam unimpeded through our lives.
At some time in the past you’ve had sacred experiences, where you knew the divine had touched you personally and profoundly. There’s nothing finer! Such a transcendent flash temporarily removes you from your everyday mindset and reminds you that your spiritual awareness is intact. Those experiences deserve to be cherished and remembered fondly. But they don’t deserve to be worshipped.
While it occurred, you experienced a Now moment—out of linear time and normal limitations. That was an integral part of its impact on you. But you’re no longer in that altered state. It has been consigned to memory—a memory that gets special treatment. Remembering the awe of it resembles a trophy that’s proudly displayed on the mantle. You fondle it during moments of despair and meditation.
There’s a temptation to build a monument to authentic encounters with the divine. And like any symbolic structure, it’s no longer free to change and grow. You cast it in concrete (or marble). Your infinite God experience is now reduced to bronzed baby shoes, rather than the bona fide event.
Those symbols become your personal “sacred cows.” They tie you to the past (which is locked in time), as you try to sustain something that has already passed. Being too attached to such authentic-at-the-time experiences prevents a person from growing beyond them—as though they could be desecrated by anything that could happen later.
“Sacred cows” are mere symbols of an authentic experience. It’s a false idol posing as “your best stuff.” You’re not being unfaithful to the original experience by stepping back from it. Many more divine experiences (Now moments) are to be had all the time. Look around for more and stay open to them.
Resistance you feel about big T truth might indicate the presence of a “sacred cow.” The “sacred cow” might indeed be true, but it’s a lesser truth which keeps you from recognizing a greater one.
Once you name some of your “sacred cows,” you remove an inhibiting attachment to the past. That creates a vacuum wherein your awareness is permitted to grow.
Truth and God are already bigger than humans can grasp. To discover the truly profound and unfathomable, you must be ready to release the ways whereby you’ve held them captive.[end of section]
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How a Binkle is Different than Plain Just Plain “Happy”
Lots of things can make us happy—for a moment.
• We’re pleased to get what we want—or something even better
• We really love being liked or appreciated
• We can’t wait for things to turn out the way we want them to be
• We live for the days when we know that our life has a meaningful purpose
• And more…
But some ways we make ourselves feel good aren’t good for us—or anyone else,
• Using power tricks or manipulation of others to make things go our way
• Undermining those around us in petty or self-dealing ways
• Enjoying addictive habits and practices that let us escape our responsibilities or what we agreed to do
• Blaming the world for our problems and mistakes
• And the list goes on…
So a person can feel happy without the joy of your heart bubbling up. But then there’s a sense of something missing.
Binkles are always accompanied by joy in some form or another
You feel a zizz of energy rippling through you—whether a slight tremor or a full-fledged Wow! Of course, happy and binkles usually appear together. But when you feel negative feeling about somebody (or yourself) there’s no place for joy. No binkles. How sad.
Take a closer look at what makes you happy. If there’s there no upbeat energy present, no binkle, some sort of deception is going on. Maybe it’s a half-truth or fudge about what’s happening. Or it could be from a self-deception you’ve lived with so long you no longer doubt its erroneous message.
It’s your job to tell the difference between what you call happy and the joyful energy of a binkle. If they’re the same, wonderful! Otherwise, look for the “worm in the apple.” To find the offending distortion brings an unacknowledged “lie” to light. It’s replaced by a truth that can set you free. You’ll know you’ve found it because of feeling the binkles and a blast of joy.
Remember, there’s no such thing as a negative binkle. Your heart can always tell the difference between a real one and a fake, even if your mind gets fooled sometimes. Your body knows as well—by the energetic zizz it feels. (A fake binkle is draining and takes you down a notch.)
Don’t settle for less than happy and binkles—now that’s a happy thought!
*Binkle – The smallest particle of affectionate energy that’s created between two people. You can feel it.
More about Binkles
Putting Civil Back into Civilization
It started with a riddle. Someone I greatly respect was given this conundrum by her spiritual teacher many years ago. And she would bring it up for discussion from time to time.
Like a Zen koan, it does not have a simple answer. The question is designed to be pondered until the intellect throws up its hands and steps aside. That capitulation could yield an aha! moment.
Why did Jesus go to the lowest?
There are lots of answers, and you can surely add your own:
• To teach by example
• To show charity toward the unfortunate
• To prove he was a good person
• He saw their need and was moved to take action
• They were willing to believe in him
• To save their souls
• It was the loving thing to do
But to me the real and paradoxical reason Jesus went to them was, he did not see them as any different than himself. He recognized those less fortunate as one with him—the child of the same God. Instead of noting their differences, he focused on their sameness to him.
Jesus didn’t treat people according to their status or economic condition. Their needs and desires were (and are) no different from everyone else’s. And they’re no less deserving of love and kindness. He acknowledged them sharing a common humanity.
Jesus refused to accept society’s view that certain people, or groups, or beliefs, were lesser or flawed for some reason. By going to them, he ignored sanctions against socializing with them. Doubtless, Jesus knew that seeking out social rejects would provoke puzzlement or antagonism about himself. But he didn’t explain his motives.
Jesus spoke often about being motivated by love—it’s the essence of the Christian message. Love cherishes what each of us has in common, no matter what form it takes—and the rest doesn’t matter as much. Seeking out those whom others dismissed as not good enough demonstrated his love of them.
Why don’t we give it a try? That would put civil back into civilization—certainly it’s a step in the right direction.
From Bonbons to Sweeten Your Daily Life or BonBons and Treats (to be released in 2016)
Opportunity knocks—but not the way you expect. It doesn’t come up to your door like a well-bred guest, asking for admittance. Opportunity knocks you down. As you lie there, feeling beaten, you have several choices:
- Fume and grumble—maybe even get angry
- Move on as quickly as possible and dismiss the whole thing
- Feel really bad about how this could have happened to you
- Try to figure out if it might be an opportunity being offered (actually, shoved at you)
When ambushed by adversity and disappointment, you are forced to see yourself and everything around you a little bit differently than usual. You get a chance to make a fresh start, set off in a new direction—coupled with the motivation to try it.
By knocking you down, something is trying very hard to get your attention. And the harder the whack, the more urgent is the message. Pay attention! You’ve been stopped, derailed, disconnected from your familiar routine.
So pause a moment before moving on again. Take a good look at the people involved, the less-than-welcome situation, and the way it all relates to you. Notice intensely, giving attention to all the pieces. It just might be opportunity knocking.
From More BonBons and Treats by Faith Lynella
The T-shirt – Opportunity Knocks
T-shirts are Everywhere – on Everyone
These days, the humble T-shirt is likely to appear at almost any kind of event social event. And they’re hard to beat for hunkering down around home. Which to choose for buying and wearing is likely to make a statement in some form. It could be funny, or artistic, chosen because of its design or color combination. But the ones you choose to wear could just as likely be a statement about your chief interests or what you’re a fan of. The variety of images can be infinite.
For instance, here are several versions of shirts for grandma that focus on why grandkids love them so much. But depending on her interests, Grandma could just as easily and appropriately wear almost any T-shirt on this website . Which also points to the universal appeal of people wearing T-shirts that communicate what matters to them. Every demographic group finds that T-shirts fit into their wardrobe rather handily.
What about your own T-shirt evolution?
From the time you were old enough to select and buy your own clothing, how have you acquired the T-shirts you still own? Which ones do you hold onto, even if you don’t wear them much, or at all, because they’ve become souvenirs of a certain person, time, or place in your life?
You could probably track the evolution of your chief interests from lining up the T-shirts you own in sequential order. What mattered to you then, compared to what you care about today? Shorn of the datedness of most clothing that goes out of fashion, the style doesn’t change much. And the fit isn’t much of an issue because it is loose to start with. That also goes into why we hang onto our T-shirts, even while weeding trendier garments out of the closet.
Just as going through your old photo albums is a walk down memory lane, your stack of T-shirts can serve the same purpose. Each time you put one of them on, pause to recall why that particular shirt is special to you. Then take a few moments to recapture those feelings and why they are worth remembering.
And if you could take another moment, feel grateful that you that those people or experiences in your life. Not a bad way to start a day, just by selecting the T-shirt you’re about to put on. Already the day looks brighter.